Friday, January 9, 2009

JUST LEARNT A NEW LESSON

JUST LEARNT A NEW LESSON
YES… I ve recently learnt a new lesson in my life…
People say that if u r really close to someone… if u really have a true friend… then that friend will always listen to u before u speak… he/she will always understand u even before u explain… but I personally believe that this is all false… all this seems gud in talks but this is something far from reality…
I don’t know if any of u might have experienced it or not… but since I have, I know how it is…
When u seriously need someone… when u desperately need to talk to someone… when u actually need a true friend… u have no one…
It’s just YOU and Ur LORD… yes, Ur lord… who’ll never leave u apart…
EXPECTATIONS for anyone can turn out to be troubles sometime…
If u keep ur expectations too high for anyone… it does become a problem at some point of ur life… the sooner we understand this, the better we can prevent the trouble…
If u expect too much from someone, its ur fault not his/hers.
I‘ll tell u how I learnt this lesson:-
Recently, I have been going through great stress in my life… and these are the times when u can expect ur friends to be with u… and u do start expecting too much from them… and there u go wrong… as I did… and wat was I left with… nothing but disappointment…
But never the less… I have finally realized that even if I have “nobody” with me… but I always have him… MY LORD… who’s always listening to me… caring for me…
SO… BELIEVING THAT IT’S BETTER TO LOWER EXPECTATIONS FROM PEOPLE THAN TO FACE DISAPPOINTMENT IN THE END… I have finally lowered my expectations from everyone…
And I feel much better now…
Nd, moreover… one thing that I would like to tell everyone is that… if u really need someone… don’t wait for the person to understand… just go and talk to him/her…
Don’t let a communication gap weaken ur relationship with anyone…
Though my friends didn’t understand me at this time of my life… but I still say that I have true friends… and the bestest friends… coz I know that if they had any idea about my condition… they would have always supported me… and they did support me…always… MORALLY…
But trust me people… if u really have someone in ur life who does understand u beyond ur words… then don’t, in any case, let ur relationship with the person weaken, in any way… coz that person must be MORE THAN THE WORLD… FOR U…

1 comment:

roopal said...

learn to b an independent grl n don't let too much of alls nonosense affect u .....gud day!!!1